Three Steps to Take If You Are Experiencing Domestic Violence
Posted by Sunshine, Isaacson & Hecht LLP on March 20th, 2020
As many of you are already aware, in response to the growing public-health concern, the Nassau County Family Court has temporarily closed its doors. Nonetheless, specific arrangements have been made by the judicial system for emergency situations. If you have an emergency legal situation, please do not hesitate to contact us so that we can help you through this difficult time. We are striving to help as many people as we can, and are doing our best to be available for you in your time of need.
Despite the unprecedented territory that we are in, the judicial system has set forth procedures for those in dire need, including victims of domestic violence. If you feel that you are in immediate danger, please contact law enforcement immediately and consider the other steps described below.
Domestic violence can take many forms. It occurs when those we trust and share our homes with betray our trust by engaging in physically violent, sexually violent, or emotionally abusive (i.e. making threats of violence) acts against us. Whether you are facing domestic violence at the hands of a boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse, parent, or adult child, the family law team at Sunshine, Isaacson & Hecht wants you to know you’re not alone. Although your situation may feel inescapable, we are here for you and there are many other resources at your disposal as well. After contacting local law enforcement:
Recognize domestic violence for what it is.
For many, it is easy to make excuses for our abusers because we love them. But no amount of love changes the fact that when someone behaves violently towards you, they are committing a crime. Their behavior is against the law and can be punishable with jail time.
It is also important to recognize that you do not deserve this. You are well within your rights to demand freedom from domestic violence.
File a family offense petition seeking an order of protection.
Also known as a restraining order, an order of protection is something you can get to legally prevent your abuser from interacting with you. It may force them to vacate your home and prevent them from contacting you or coming within a certain radius of your home, your place of work, or your physical person. To obtain an order of protection, you can file a petition with family court. Even now, with the Family Court being closed, there is a system in place so that you will have access to the judicial system. Often, you can go to Court and leave that same day with at least a Temporary Order of Protection, which would remain in place until your case can be heard by a Judge.
Consider other resources
You are not alone. There are many groups where you can meet and speak to people that are in similar situations. There are counselors that can offer guidance. There are many options and resources out there for you.
The Sunshine, Isaacson & Hecht family law team is here to help. If you are experiencing domestic violence and want help, please please contact us. We offer free consultations, and anything you tell us will be kept in confidence.